Work Together

When it comes to your child’s education, one of the most powerful things you can do is form a strong, respectful relationship with their teacher. Parents and teachers are a team, working toward the same goal: helping children grow, learn, and thrive. A solid home-school connection creates a supportive environment where your child feels secure and encouraged both in and out of the classroom. Here are five practical ways to build that positive relationship and work together effectively.

1. Be on the Same Page as the Teacher and School

Collaboration is key to your child’s success. Make the effort to understand the school’s policies, expectations, and curriculum—and align with them as much as possible. If your child hears one message at school and a different one at home, it can create confusion and stress. Stay informed by reading newsletters, attending meetings, and asking questions when needed. Showing that you’re committed to the same goals as the teacher builds trust and shows your child that education is a priority.

2. Don’t Disagree with the Teacher’s Opinion in Front of Your Child

Even if you don’t fully agree with a teacher’s approach or feedback, it’s important to address concerns privately and respectfully. Voicing disagreement in front of your child can undermine the teacher’s authority and create tension. Instead, reach out to the teacher directly to discuss your concerns calmly. When adults work through disagreements constructively, it models healthy communication and problem-solving skills for children.

3. Find Out the Teacher’s Preferred Mode of Communication

Every teacher is different—some may prefer calls, emails, or texts. Others may use a class communication app or send home communication folders. Early in the school year, ask how the teacher likes to be contacted and when they’re most available. Respecting their preferred method makes communication smoother and more efficient, and shows that you value their time and effort. Be sure not to abuse the calls or texts or the teacher may start to disregard them.

4. Send Neat, Clear Notes to the Teacher and Office

Whether you're reporting an absence, requesting a meeting, or sending in a form, make sure your notes are easy to read and to the point. Teachers and office staff handle a lot of information every day—clear communication helps avoid misunderstandings and ensures your message gets across quickly. Your child will also pick up on your cues to respect the school.

Stock up on pads and pens and have them readily available so you don't need to scramble for a scrap of paper at the last second before the bus comes!

5. Check in with the Teacher Consistently Throughout the Year

Don’t wait until parent-teacher conferences to connect. A quick check-in every now and then—whether by email, note, or face-to-face—keeps the lines of communication open. It shows the teacher you’re invested in your child's education. You can also gain valuable insights into your child’s progress, behavior, and social development. Most importantly, regular check-ins help catch potential issues early. Be an active partner in your child’s education.

When parents and teachers work together with mutual respect and open communication, everyone benefits—especially the child. By supporting the teacher, staying informed, and being a consistent presence in your child’s academic journey, you’re creating a powerful support system that helps your child succeed in school and beyond.

Work together. It truly takes a team.